Wednesday, January 9, 2008

This entry is a bit scattered, because there's too much to write about.


Bangkok is DIRTY. Like, the most polluted city I've ever been in. Even though every day is cloudless, by 2:30 the sun goes behind the pollution, and the city becomes hot and muggy, but not what anyone would call "sunny." It's as if a light cloud were covering the entire sky. That means that I have to utilize my AMAZING condo's pool between 10:30 a.m. and 2:30 p.m. (or 14:30, which is how they tell time here).

The people are incredible. First, they're all extremely friendly and helpful. Instead of being put off that Westerners are visiting their country, they're delighted, and do most of what they can to help us in any way. I read that this is because Thailand was one of the few Southeast Asian countries not to be colonized, so they never got a bad perception of Westerners. I had a man approach me on the street and direct me and my new friend, Andy, to the most inexpensive canal ride in town. He went out of his way to draw Andy and me a map. And the students at Thammasat are just as nice. In my accounting class we have a homework due on Monday. Since it's about a Thai company, my teacher suggested that each exchange student pair up with a Thai student. When I first heard that I assumed I would have to ask a Thai student to help me out and be my partner; instead, two girls approached me and asked if they could be my buddy. They were excited to help me out. Really! I love it.

On the other hand, because they're poor and we're not, we get exploited. I've already learned to bargain a bit. At first I felt really shy and peculiar, even rude bargaining, but now that I've done it, there's no going back. It doesn't matter that 500 baht is only $15 and I would pay that much or more normally, it matters that they charge everyone else 200 baht.

A few things that drive me nuts:

- Very few garbage bins anywhere, so you have to hold your trash for miles. Absolutely no recycling bins.
- No sauce on sushi
- Every shampoo and conditioner sold is made for "straight and weighty" hair
- No toilet paper anywhere, and for the most part just sprayers
- No napkins to speak of
- Only ob tampons

The food is fantastic, and I've become a very adventurous eater.
I try to eat at least one very spicy dish per day, so that my taste buds get used to it. This is for my own personal satisfaction. I also love to try new things. I've eaten anything set in front of me, but a few goals of mine include eating jellyfish and insects. The other exchange students are worried about the street food, but I've gone as far as to have sushi from the street and I've been fine. If we're going to get sick, we're going to get sick.

Sample street food I'll eventually eat: (This is a chicken claw)


Tonight we went for Korean barbecue, which was delicious until I scalded my knee. The grill is set in the middle of the table, but it's plenty hot underneath. Afterward we set out for a club called "Bed," in which the seating is entirely beds, but we somehow wound up in the Red Light district. No worries (mai pben rai), Thammasat warned us all about it.


Everyone else seems pretty great so far. I'm rooming with a beautiful Hawaiian girl named Meris, who goes to USC. We live in a completely furnished (and when I say completely, I mean we even get wine glasses) condo on the 34th floor with two balconies overlooking Bangkok. It's beautiful and spacious and just $255 a month. Beat that, Austin. The other two girls from our group live directly one floor above us, and the eight other guys are scattered throughout the complex. We hang out every night, which I love. In fact, last night I can tell that no one did anything because three separate facebook albums went up.

We're going to Hua Hin, a beach down south, tomorrow on a field trip. Instead of coming back with the rest of the group, though, we're all staying through Sunday. I'm excited! My first real beachy Thailand experience.

The other exchange students have asked me, in complete sincerity, whether I have a gun or not. And have been similarly sincerely surprised when I've told them that there are many gay clubs in Texas. I've become accustomed to adding the phrase, "But I hate George Bush," after I get introduced to people. It's my personal mission to dispel all their preconceived notions about Texas.

Similarly, Thai people stare. I don't understand why, because I see caucasian backpackers everywhere, but it's true. Especially children. It's a humbling experience to be the minority in terms of race for the first time in my life, but I like it. The little kids and babies, especially, don't know what to think when they see me and the other exchange students. Some get really happy when we wave and smile, and others are too shocked to respond. What I didn't expect at all, though, was that Meris, who is Chinese by descent, would be the most conspicuous. She gets stranger looks than any of us, because Thais wonder what she's doing in Thailand. They can't figure out whether she's a funny looking Thai, or a Thai of Chinese descent, or what. And most of the time they try to talk to her in Thai. When she doesn't speak it back, they're even more bewildered that she's an American.

Lastly, (and since I'm technically here to study), I'm going to say that classes are the biggest culture shock of all. I feel more like I'm in high school than college, because the teacher spends most of the time trying to control the class. Thai students go so far as to talk on their cell phones while teachers are lecturing, which blows my mind. It's also to my disadvantage. I feel like I'm being more lectured at than anyone else since I'm the only one not talking.

Four hours until Hua Hin! I need some sleep. Pictures when I get back, I promise.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

Well, it turns out I'm really good with titles, so here's my suggestion for your entry:

"mai pben rai"

Do provde pictures, in has high resolution as possible.

Mediator said...

Abby, your tales of adventure are so great. I myself have never travelled anywhere like Thailand, and I admire your courage, and your feisty spirit, as you traverse the foreign roads. Are you really going to eat insects? I guess if they are crunchy & highly spiced - or dipped in chocolate...

I have read that Thailand is a place that many Americans travel to to have plastic surgery, because their medical services are a fraction of the cost of ours, and they have excellent physicians, many of whom were trained in the US. But I did not realize that the natives could also take advantage of these resources!

Rachel Green

tequesta said...

Abby,

I just read all the entries in your blog. Many made me smile for various reasons I will tell you about.

First, so you don’t think I’m a total stranger—I’m from Texas and went to the same summer church camp as your dad, but a few years before him. I found his “Let’s Go Back to Church Camp” website a couple of years ago and we’ve shared a couple of emails since then,

You write very well—keep up the good work! I was an English/Writing major and graduate at Florida Atlantic University.

I taught English in Korea for a year in 2005-2006, so I can relate and find your adventures interesting.

My Korea story: www.yobonanza.com/JaysKoreaStory.html

And yes, I am so familiar with the George Bush disclaimer that closely follows the “I’m from Texas” statement. However, actually being from the stereotypical part of Texas (Abilene) I used to play up the preconceived notions—the good ones anyway. Texas is a great place to be from. No matter where in the world you go—they know of Texas and pause in our presence.

The Korean Barbeque you refer to is Kalbi—one of my favorites!

Enjoy every minute of your experience; you will be surprised how much will stick in you mind. I was in Korea for a full year and I swear I seem to remember every single day..

I live in Costa Rica now and have a dream job with a real estate developer, but the draw of Asia creeps into my consciousness quite often.

If anything ails you over there—go to a Chinese doctor (for minor things like feet pain or aches), they are amazing1

Well, other thoughts come to mind. But I’ll save them for now.

Looking forward to your next entry.

Jay

Abby Terrell said...

Daddy - I hope those pictures are enough to satisfy you for now. Can I have your Flickr account name and password? I think I can upload a lot more than 6 photos per entry if I use that instead.

Rachel - I think the bugs are more like chips, fried and heavily salted. I'll let you know when I eat them. As for the plastic surgery, the locals definitely use it. Transvestites are completely accepted here (something about how Buddha was both sexes), and many Thai males become "ladyboys." For some you can tell, but for most you can't, since Thais are so small anyway. In fact, Thammasat votes on the most good looking boy and girl for each grade, and the second-year most beautiful girl is a ladyboy. I would never have known had one of the Thai students not told me.

Jay - I appreciate you reading my blog, especially since we only know each other so indirectly. I'm looking forward to your comments in the future! I don't know very many people who have been to Asia extensively.